So, again i have being haunted with another friend of mine. This time she is my secondary schoolmate. That skinny funny fellow married 9 years ago and was given 3 wonderful children and a happy family. Like what she told me, her life is wonderful life flowers. Although life is busy for her everyday but she never feel bored with the lovely husband she had and of course her 3 naughty children that always gives her smiles and hopes. Ohya... she is the only schoolmate that I still keep in touch with coincidentally through Internet friendster. So, yesterday, I was abit shock when she message me via MSN seeking for my advise. See, another one! Initially I thought she is not happy with her husband or has some disagreement that might have caused both of them argued or sort of throwing words around that hurting each other. So, before she start to talk, I asked if there is an argument with her husband but she answered NO. That is really interesting when a woman tells you they have no problem with her husband but feeling bad and guilty. Well... what else that can make a married woman worried other than ... affair? i am absolutely right. Although she is not really having affair physically, but her intention and response to this man is somehow to me; is consider affair too. Ok... who is that guy? According to my friend, he is her ex bf who is married with kids. See both is married! Somehow this silly man is sending SMS to my friend telling her that he miss her to much and wish to be with her. he is trying to date her and meet but his intention was rejected by my friend. Seriously no one know if they meet or not but to me .... I guess they did. She further added that he calls her several times and talked for quite awhile exchanging feels and misses. And now, it has reached to a stage where this man... his wife get to know that he is keeping in touch with his ex gf; which is my friend. Because of that, this silly man had a great fight with her wife and about to tear the family apart for this silly friend of mine. But luckily he then decided to keep his family and lay low. In other words, he will stop keeping in touch with my friend! Awhile I guess! But now she is worried that his wife will attack her. To me, if you doesn't want this to happen, you shouldn't have get involve in this in the first place. You are given a wonderful family with lovely husband and kids and yet you are not satisfy with it and continue to do wonders behind your husband. Although I am not clearly understand the situation between you and that silly man, keeping in touch with him as a friend is not really a bad things but exchanging feels and loves or misses is totally not acceptable. Seriously, as you always mentioned to me, your husband is a very lovely person and a wonderful family man, why do you need to have another one behind him?
Until today, I really can't understand what do woman wants. Given all the things they wanted before marriage and after marriage, yet they are not satisfy with it and seek for alternate ways to tear the family apart including people's family. By end of day, the blame goes to the man.
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